كيف نروي لحظة حزينة باحترام وطمأنينة؟
في آخر يومه كان النبي ﷺ في حجرة عائشة رضي الله عنها. وتروي الأحاديث الصحيحة أنه اختار السواك، ثم دعا الله وقال: «بل الرفيق الأعلى».
نحزن حين نفقد من نحب، وهذا شعور إنساني. والإيمان يعلّمنا أن ندعو للميت، وأن نتذكر الخير الذي تركه، وأن نرجو رحمة الله.
توفي النبي ﷺ بعد أن قال: «بل الرفيق الأعلى» كما روت عائشة رضي الله عنها.
ما الدعاء الذي تقوله لمن تحبه؟
تعلّم دعاءً قصيرًا بالرحمة، واسأل أسرتك عن معناه.
فيه عادة صغيرة حلوة بتعملها كل يوم وتحبّ تفضل عليها؟
المصادر: صحيح البخاري ومسلم، حديث عائشة رضي الله عنها في وفاة النبي ﷺ.
His head was on Aishah's chest when her brother came in with a fresh toothstick. The Prophet ﷺ looked at it, and she understood that he wanted it, so she softened it for him and he used it. Then he raised his eyes and began saying: “With the Highest Companion” — and he passed away.
The last thing left of a person is what they chose.
On the Monday, the Prophet's head was resting against Aishah. Her brother Abd al-Rahman ibn Abi Bakr came in holding a fresh toothstick, and the Prophet ﷺ looked at it in a way that told her he wanted it. She said: shall I take it for you? He nodded. So she took it, bit it soft and gave it to him, and he cleaned his teeth with it as well as she had ever seen him do. Then he went to hand it back, and his hand dropped. There was a vessel of water before him, and he was dipping his hands in it and wiping his face. Then he raised his eyes towards the ceiling and said: “With those Allah has favoured — the prophets, the truthful, the martyrs and the righteous.” Then: “O Allah, forgive me and have mercy on me and join me with the Highest Companion,” repeating it: “Rather, the Highest Companion.” Then his hand fell, and he passed away.
Allah says: ﴿فَأُولَٰئِكَ مَعَ الَّذِينَ أَنْعَمَ اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِم مِّنَ النَّبِيِّينَ وَالصِّدِّيقِينَ﴾ — “those are with the ones Allah has favoured: the prophets and the truthful.”